A thing of beauty is joy forever

A thing of beauty is  joy forever

09 February 2010

try sleeping with a broken heart

Me and my boyfriend decided to finish our
relationship after 4,5 yrs and the last
year engagement..:(

Sometimes love is not enough.

Ah.. I've never been with anybody for
so long and he was so much more than
'just' a boyfriend. He was my best friend.

Sorry if it sounds dramatic
but it literally is the most difficult
thing that I ever had to do.

Especially when my BDay and Valentines Day
is just around the corner.

I wish there was a quick fix
to a broken heart.

Sorry for the randomness of this post.



  1. I'm sorry to hear about this :( I understand how difficult ending a long relationship can be. I wish you all the best, keep your head up & stay strong love<3

  2. oh sweetheart (L)
    it'll get better, i promise

    love, Eliza xxx

  3. Oh jeez, I'm so sorry sweetie. Things will get better though, mentally sending you big bear hugs.

  4. Aww, Im sorry honey. Time is a great healer and it'l make you stronger :) just take one day at a time and surround yourself with your friends.
    Hope your okay.

  5. So sorry to hear that hun. I wish I had something more comforting to say but I can't seem to find the right words. Stay strong...u'll come out of it in time.

  6. stay strong lovely... it will get easier... one day. xx

  7. dang girl.
    I feel like everyones breaking up on here! This is already the 3rd post I saw. I'm sorry girl, that can't be easy at all.
    I understand what you mean abouut him being ur bf because thats my boyfriend too. He's my bestfriend.
    I hope things get easier for you

  8. I'm sorry honey!But you'll see that the clock is ticking and you'll feel better.In my country we say "any obstacle to good"!!!Hope that it 'll get better for you at the near future!

  9. Awh, I'm sorry to hear about that! I can't really relate to something like that but I totally understand that he was your best friend because my bf is my best friend too. Anyways, I hope things do get easier. Smile sweetie =). X X X

  10. Wow, like these other ladies have mentioned, it WILL get easier.

    Smile :)

    On the up side; this calls for some retail therapy!

  11. Awww soz to hear this :( Go and treat and pamper yourself, you're worth it :) x

  12. Sweetheart, I know words cannot make u feel better, but I totally feel u, a year ago I had a break up after 6,5 years of relationship AND at the same time I had a terrible fight with my best friend, so I had to get through that all alone. Be close to people that love u, that is the best remedy. Time is the best medicine, I know it is a cliche but it really works. Kisses and hugs...


  13. :*( I hope you feel better soon. Be strong x0x0

  14. Hello =) And I know it is hard right now because I am living kind of the same All I can say is that it will take time to heal your heart, but you are not alone. You have your family, friends and people that care about you. Right it is sad, but dont give you, you are a beautiful person and soon you will see the sun again. I hope you have a happy birthday and dont let this dark your day. It is your day, and dont let all sadness come to your life. :)

  15. I am amazed by your response ladies!
    Thank you all for the kind words.

    It is devastating at the moment.
    The flat is silent and empty.
    I sleep most of the time.
    I miss like crazy what we used to have.

    I bet time is the best healer.
    Thank you once again.
    I didn't expect so many wonderful comments xx

  16. I'm so sorry, I know it must hurt. I hope you feel better soon. But in the long run, it's probably better that you found out it didn't work earlier rather than later, which would give you even more pain..and it will get better eventually, after some time. I hope time will heal your wounds and you'll feel better soon!

  17. I am so sorry to hear that. I just hope that you will start to feel better soon...breakups are never easy.